11:39pm
oritex, its gonna be a super duper long post..
i really haf to thank..
1st, both our sides of families.. they help us alot financially.. really really gotta thank them hard.. w/o them, i dun think we can afford it..
2nd, my dearest sam.. thanks my dear.. w/o u by my side, w/o u saying yes to what ive planned, i wldnt haf the most happiest moment in my life..=)
3rd, all my ah yees (vanessa, yufen, edwina, jessie, caroline, irene, shuhui & liting).. thanks for all ur time.. because u all are the ones that make it happen! that makes the atmosphere so "HIGH"! hahas..=)
4th, all the guests that came on the wedding dinner! a big thanks to those who came! u gave mi ur precious time to attend my wedding! thanks!
5th, ROLAND! my best bud! i nv thought u wld came becos u was all alone w no one to acc u.. u juz came alone to gimme ur best wishes.. thanks my dearest bud! i love u man! u rox!
6th, those who help out at the reception! dear's 2nd auntie, his cousin - jinyi if im nt wrong and his sis - jennifer.. nt to forget, vanessa & yf! =)
here comes..
7th march 06
all my ahyees stay overnite at my hse.. except vq and yf.. we ordered pizza hut and kfc.. talked alot.. nid to think of 20 qns to tekan my dear boi.. but those girls keep gossiping.. hahas.. in the end, hab to spend ard 4hrs to think wad to do..-,- cldnt slp the whole nite.. tried to.. they all went out w chienyen.. cos cy drives den she came in the mid of e nite to visit mi! *touched* she cant come for my wedding lars.. den i stay at hm trying to slp.. when i was abt to doze off, irritating dear call mi!! *zzz* den i try to get back to slp.. cannot.. den all come back.. i canot slp liaos.. but they all slp like a pig! LOL! so i went to bath at 5am..
8th march 06
den after awhile i came out, apple (makeup artiste) and videographer (andy) came liaos.. so i start my makeup lor.. spend quite long to prepare.. den 7am liaos dear they all still haber reach!! its bcos his friends late!! plus he forgot to bring the flowers to my house!! den they go find flower shop to buy another bouquet..-,- HOW STUPID CAN HE GET?! *arghs*!! i also realise i look super fat w my wedding gown.. it wasnt like this 2 days ago when i try it on.. i realise my stomach has grown very very big within these 2 days.. im not finding excuses on what.. but its true.. sometimes, u canot choose not to believe.. for superstitious ppl like me, we believe when the person got married or after the wedding ceremony, this is the time their stomach will grow more obvious for those ppl whose stomach has not been obvious.. i felt terrible the whole day bcos i look really awful in my gown as my stomach is so freaking ugly! =( den.. when dear arrive.. trust me, ive nv felt so much in love with him.. even till today.. whenever i think back, emotions came back.. i luff at it.. i felt so loved.. *s0bx* he arrive at my house.. my ah yees did not allow him to come in right after he arrive.. he was suppose to ans some qns.. apparently, he got most of it correct.. to my surprise really! hahas.. but he got 3 wrong lars.. qns that he ans wrongly hab to do forfeit.. he danced sexily, pluck his own 5 leg hairs and "zhen qing gao bai".. i dun really noe wad had happen.. muz wait till my video ready den noe.. but this is wad i heard in the room.. he sang very softly on alex to - jia gei wo.. den at the end part, he SHOUT, "jia gei wo"! den the nxt time i heard him, i heard him SHOUTING, "chailing, wo ai ni.. ni ai wo ma" WTF?! i really felt like crying.. i wanted so much to cry and tell him i love him too! but cant lars.. later smudge my makeup jialat..=x den he came in.. still gotta go thru 3 rounds.. but easy lar.. juz give angbaos.. hahas.. den he come in.. kneel down.. gimme flower and a peck on the cheek.. den we go out take some fotos.. head for sengkang..
reach sengkang, his relatives nt there yet.. so we went to take some pics first.. den come up.. buffet ready.. and his relatives there liaos.. so we had tea ceremony.. it was pretty tense lar.. felt really intimidated..=x den we had family photo.. head back to jurong, my house after that..
again for tea ceremony.. luckily, mum din said anithing more.. if not i would haf teared so much! =( she juz whisper in my ears while wearing the necklace.. "grow up liaos ar.." *s0bx* den all the children in my house line up one by one call dear "jie fu" or "biao jie fu".. so farnie lors.. wahahahas! den my auntie tekan him.. ask him shout loud loud when addressing auntie, uncles, papa, mummy all these.. hahas.. den my ahyees and dear's brothers rest awhile.. cos got buffet again.. den they left from my house.. for mi and dear, we went back to sengkang again..
i was totally shag out when i went back to sengkang man.. we slept for 1hr.. nearly canot wake up man.. my uncle reach our house downstairs at 4.45pm.. agreed to meet there 1.. but we only wake up at 4.30pm.. den pack everything etc.. 5.15pm or so liaos.. lucky today my wedding he nv scold mi.. nv kpkb mi.. if not sure bery jialat.. LOL! den reach restaurant there.. apple already there lers.. she help mi makeup and stuffs.. hab to get ready liaos.. was pretty confusing at first.. but after tat, everything kinda settle down.. all thanks to our family members that we've no worries! =) we had our solemnization at 8pm sharp.. thanks to those who came early to witness our solemnization.. mum's eyes were really watery..=( when we first march in, the feeling is omg so good! hahas..=x den we sign the paper go down stage.. after awhile, prepare for 1st march in.. while we were outside, we saw our wedding photos.. mi and dear got so emotional.. i really wanted to hug him and cry.. his eyes also bery watery.. but hab to control.. its bery hard ok..=( i was really really bery bery happy! den we march in.. i felt that everyone is giving mi blessings.. i felt so blessed..=x den we go up and cut cake.. after cut cake, we sit down at the table.. eat the first dish, go in get changed liaos.. den wait for awhile, prepare for 2nd march in again.. this time rd is for champagne.. dear had diffculty opening the "cork" man! hahas.. so farnie lors.. he also gan chiong.. pour the champagne so slow.. den he sae his hands very tired.. wahahahahas.. we had "jiao bei jiu".. after tat, invite our relatives and friends come up for yum seng! =) my dad so idiotic! yum seng 3 times straight in a row.. make us so paiseh! WAHAHAHAHAHAS! after tat, photo taking session! lucky we dun hab alot of tables! we went to each and every of the tables for phototaking! finish liaos, i went back to the table again.. by then also going to finish lers.. den sit down eat 1 bowl of eefu noodles, go over to some tables to hi etc.. den 4-05 friends wants to take pics w mi.. den we take some shots.. went over to yf and vq's table.. we had a "yum seng".. that's the best "yum seng" i ever had ok! in fact, i felt so happy when we had the "yum seng" lors! =) den end of session.. muz stand outside the door.. cos hab to song ke.. after everyone left, we stay for awhile den home sweet home too! =)
9th march 2006
went in JB.. stay 1 nite at Pulai Spring Resort.. we stay in their villa.. *shuang* we had our own personal mini pool juz outside our balcony! like own house lidat.. mi n dear really hope we got a house lidat in the future.. but FAT HOPES! in sg lidat cfm damn ex.. we can nv afford it! LOL! its supposingly for 4 persons a villa.. but only we 2 nia.. so got 2 rms.. it was quite scary at nite lar.. especially that area is damn new.. no one ard that area.. so its bery bery super duper quiet at nite..=( but well, we were looking for a place for relaxation.. a place to relieve our stress only.. so ya, its a good place lors.. we went JUSCO supermarket to buy some frozen food back to cook.. hahas.. den had pizza hut for lunch cum dinner.. and bought 6 big dunkin donuts back.. i din finish it obviously! if dun hab transport, quite troublesome lors.. cos the only best thing is their private pool! =) otherwise, its like a normal house.. perfect to relieve stress though.. super stress and tired these few days mahs..=)
10th march 2006
check-out liaos.. den leave for pelangi.. finally had the stonegrill liaos.. always sae wanna eat wanna eat end up nv.. nt very fantastic lar the food.. den head back to sg.. go over to my house first.. cos "san zhao hui men".. its for the superstitious mi lar.. to go back as a visitor cos im married liaos mahs.. smth lidat.. dunno ask ur parents! wahahahas! bought polar cakes back.. omg.. all eat till so full! den go over to ahma's hse.. had dinner! i had 2 big plates of rice! 1 plate share w dear de.. they cook so *yummy*!! how can i not grab the chance? =x dun worry.. i din SQUEEZE all of them in my stomach.. i juz feel like eating and my dearest baobei says, "mummy, still can squeeze in!" wahahahahas! den went over bukit panjang plaza.. dear wanna buy shoes for work.. he saes his shoes not comfortable.. he wanted to buy a pair of sneakers frm I.P Zone.. but dun hab his size.. went over to LOT1.. also dun hab.. *arghs!! den had dessert and went back hm lers.. now he's slping like a pig.. LOL!
lotsa ppl tell me that im gonna be sOo super tired and shag on my wedding day.. i admit i am.. but if i were to choose again, i know i will still take back the same path.. becos i felt so happy.. felt so grown-up.. an experience, a feeling which i can never ever buy with any amt of money.. i can nv haf a second time again.. it will nv be the same again.. if say i got divorce.. i dun tink i wan the same whole thing again if i got remarried.. even if i did.. the feeling is different.. i really have to thank my dearest husband - samuel for supporting me these few months.. it was he who ask mi to move on.. to ignore wadeva other ppl's mouth.. they can sae wadeva they like.. most imptly, it muz be us that muz be happy.. lotsa ppl sae im demanding.. they sae i no money still wan this wan that.. but we are the ones really happy now.. im so glad ive everything.. even though they're not really very fantastic.. not the best.. but at least, ive most of them done.. ive a wedding dinner.. thank god.. i din accept a mere buffet.. i can nv accept a mere buffet.. even though i did not have it in my dream fullerton hotel.. but ive always wanted a wedding dinner.. i got to march in w my dearest beloved.. we got the blessings of so many ppl.. so many ppl were there to witness.. ive videographer and photographer on my wedding day to capture our happiest moments.. many ppl sae its a waste of money.. but i really haf to tell u, its definitely not.. lastly, the ahyees and brothers.. lotsa conflicts within the families regarding the ahyees and bros.. let me say, im really glad.. if not for them.. i will never smile and luff like a crazy woman to myself whenever i thought of dear shouting, "jia gei wo" & "chailing wo ai ni, ni ai wo ma".. i never regret.. i felt that i own all these to my dearest boi.. thanks! =) i know ive truly found my happiness.. and that's you..=)
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