12:30pm
reading a topic regarding single moms..
http://idobaby.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=5410
kudos to those single moms.. i think they're very very brave.. even braver then young mummies.. because having a man by your side is very impt.. but den again, we are women.. we don't need man to survive also! hehe.. im still reading the thread.. there's some replies to this topic.. and i think its VERY true when i come across wad they said.. regarding FRIENDS..
"When I tell my friends I was pregnant.
I was very sad..... I lost many of my so called good friends.
I was very thankful for those who stick by me throughout my pregnancy, rendering all the help they can.
I was very grateful to the strangers I got to know, people who has helped me unconditionally, people who has visited me in hospital, despite being strangers to me.
In the course of this, I have made many new friends.
And I can be assured that these are REAL friends.
Because they accept me as a friend when I have nothing to offer them in return."
quoted by jwlim
agree w her totally..
actually, single moms has their advantages too! u're alone.. so u decide EVERYTHING alone! u don't need to feel/considerate how your partner will feel or his family will feel.. its just you and baby.. sometimes, i feel upset w e fact that im married.. bcos im married, ppl feels that i MUST stay at in-laws place.. i MUST let my in-laws look after.. i MUST do this do that.. and i must consider whether his family side will be offended anot.. if we're not married, just gf-bf status, i dun nid to care so much.. very sian one.. and w my character.. i dun really accept ppl's comments or advices.. sometimes.. only when i need one..
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